"I was separated for six months' and continually listened to divorce podcasts during the quarantine, feeling stuck in quicksand, hoping someone would provide magic words to eliminate my pain. I heard Wendy interviewed on a podcast and contacted her for a 30 minute session. After speaking with Wendy, I knew this was the solution to end my guilt trip for leaving my 30 year marriage. Three months' later, Wendy's intense coaching and theta healing sessions gave me the clarity to let go of the past and set healthy boundaries to successfully move to my next chapter. Although I am still working on mediation, I gained confidence to leave my pity party and focus on self-care so I can finish the divorce process and look forward to my bright future. I also met a great support group of women around the world in various stages of their divorce, giving each other inspiration to take the next step on their journey."
"Quarantine and the Covid have changed us all, but it really took a toll on me. While some people were sitting around gaining weight, I managed to lose over 200 pounds. Cuz I lost my husband…yep, we are no longer. And I was devastated. Keyword – WAS! I just couldn’t believe my entire world was turned upside down so quickly. I began to question myself even more…am I not enough? Did I not do enough? Am I a failure? Then I discovered Wendy Sterling and her Divorce Rehab group. She helped me realize this was a gift, an opportunity. I had pushed my own wants and needs to the side for years trying to be the bonus mom that filled in for a missing mother and a wife that lost her opinions to compromise for the sake of fewer arguments. This separation didn’t happen to me. It happened FOR me. I have learned to take time for me again. Not just sit in the bathtub to get away from the chaos of the house, but to really get to know me."
"Before I started working with Wendy I was stuck. I felt trapped in my life and saw no way out. I couldn't get my thoughts straight and there was no progression toward happiness. I decided to work with Wendy on a whim. I was totally uncomfortable with the financial commitment, but as soon as I committed I felt the sense that it was what I needed to do. Shit got real! I wanted someone, anyone else to do the work, but once I started talking more to Wendy it became clear that I had just signed up for a priceless gift. I am still working through my situation but Wendy has been available to me when ever I ask for help. She calms me and keeps me focused. She directs my attention where it needs to be and not on what my mind creates. I cannot thank her enough for what she has already done for me and we still have the majority of our journey ahead of us. I'm excited to see what will transpire."
"I just started working with Wendy and in just 2 weeks, I love the ability to be able to check in with her when I need. I like the real time connection versus having to wait for an appointment. She is always quick to call or message me back. For me, it helps to have items to focus on as homework. And her accountability is key. I really like that this is not a pity party. It is a tough love approach to get me and her clients to move in the right direction. I look forward to continuing in the Divorce Rehab program and having Wendy and a community to support me!"
"I began working with Wendy shortly after my husband decided he wanted a divorce. I am a stay at home mom with 3 children and he is a very successful businessman. I had so many emotions and was completely overwhelmed. Wendy and I worked together to breakdown my fears and prioritize how to tackle each one. She has helped me see my self worth and I am taking control of my life and this process. I have a long road ahead of me but I know who I am and am rebuilding myself into someone I am truly proud of. I am so grateful that our paths crossed when they did!"
"Thank you so much for this Facebook group and workshop. I can't even tell you how much it has helped even just being day 2. It has ignited a fire in me and I have even started communicating with my ex in a way that I have control of my own feelings and thoughts.. my wants and my needs and he's trying to manipulate his way back in and not being successful."
"I wanted to thank you for your wonderful workshop. It was a powerful session that left me with new thoughts and tools to move forward. This is the kind of stuff I truly believe is priceless right now. I look forward to more workshops with you!"
"You are an amazing and invaluable resource for women going through one of the most challenging chapters of our lives. "
"I listened to your podcast: Healing from the Emotional Trauma of Divorce. Thank you for hitting the mark. Wow. I am going to listen to this a few times more. So many moments that spoke to me. Your podcasts are getting me through some really tough mental battles. "
"After being separated from my husband of 23 years and being a mom of 3 teen boys who also were grieving of the loss of our family unit, I was sad and grieving the fact that my husband lived a double life. He left for his mistress and turned our lives upside down, financially. I went through the stages of grief/loss and had a great support system of family and friends. But that started to fade around the 8 month mark. I soon realized that this was my own journey to get through. I got stronger, but still felt a lot of fear and sadness after a year of this process. Most days I felt stuck, frozen and paralyzed, which stopped me from moving forward with the discovery process. I allowed fear to take over my thoughts. One day on Facebook an article Wendy Sterling wrote appeared in my feed. I clicked on it and also joined her Divorce 2.0 group. I am so happy I did! I immediately felt a strong connection to her and her coaching style. Her “ Sass with a lot of Class," no nonsense, no enabling-style is exactly what I need! I joined her Divorce Rehab Group coaching course and it really made a positive impact on my mindset. Her Facebook Lives as well as her 1:1 video coaching sessions impacted not only me, but everyone in the group. I had many “Light Bulb” moments and breakthroughs that have helped me to tackle fear and insecurity head on! After experiencing the Divorce Rehab Session, my outlook and thoughts have turned from scared to accepting, hopeful and more positive. I plan on continuing with one on one coaching with Wendy going forward and I am looking forward to creating the most authentic and happiest 2nd Chapter of my life."
"I just had my very first coaching conversation with Wendy. She listened and very quickly pinpointed something I said in our conversation about what might be holding me back from having the relationship I want. It was something relatively simple for an outsider to view, but something that was easy for me to overlook, thereby keeping myself stuck. She suggested an exercise that really felt powerful and allowed me to make an immediate shift. I look forward to using that tool now to help me get where I want to go. What makes Wendy a great coach is her ability to precisely tap into comments you make and identify patterns, and then offer examples that will allow you to look at things from a different perspective. I am excited to continue my work with Wendy and see how I continue to grow."
"Wendy…where do I begin? Well, first of all, thank you for a wonderful workshop!! You truly have the gift intuition and empowerment of others. I had another aha moment in your session. And, I put my “sign” out into the world – I have seen it twice since we met! Unbelievable! It’s amazing the power we have when we put our intentions out into the world. Thanks again for helping me realize this!”"
"While looking for a coach to help me through transition, I found Wendy. She was the magical spark I needed to help me get unstuck. As she continues to help me ignite the fire I have within, I am most thankful for her professionalism, acknowledgments, the action words and poise she carries. She is a great coach. I highly recommend Wendy to anyone in need of some action in their life. Thank you Wendy! You are awesome!” "
"Prior to working with Wendy, I felt fairly overwhelmed with life and my career, including the process to take on a new challenge. Taking on a new challenges meant stepping out of my comfort zone, learning new skills, all while staying balanced. Wendy’s coaching taught me how to navigate road blocks and take on new challenges with positivity and confidence. I used to think it was shameful to feel confident, or even proud of my accomplishments. Wendy coached me to feel confident with being confident, how to approach challenges with a new perspective, and to develop a process to manage multiple situations, whether they are big or small. With Wendy’s coaching, I know life’s challenges won’t disappear. However, I have the skills and confidence to navigate both negative and positive times with a clear direction to manage life decisions with productivity and balance."
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